If you don’t yet know about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), also known as Tapping, find out about it. Basically, things that happen to us and the resulting beliefs we form become a part of our energetic body and in essence become stuck in us. By tapping on certain meridian points while stating your current feelings about a situation, like when you’re super stressed out or you’ve been triggered, can help you to dislodge those stuck beliefs. This is a very simplified explanation, but it absolutely works.
Now, money is something I have struggled with my entire life. I am an only child from an abusive home and raised by a single mother from the age of 13. When I came across this simple EFT for money blocks video from Nicola Humber, I decided to do it because I’m working on a money hump that I’m trying to overcome right now.
At first I was like, nope, I don’t believe that I don’t deserve the money I want, but then she said “that’s what they told me when I was little” and I realised how my family’s money story affected me. We NEVER had money. My dad was the sole earner and a struggling artist, he was also volatile around money and we feared asking him for money to buy food or pay bills.
When I was older and living with my dad after the divorce, I remember him telling me that he couldn’t wait until I finished high school so that I would no longer be his responsibility and he wouldn’t have to waste his money clothing and feeding me.
Until this video, I had no idea how these experiences could have set a subconscious belief in me that I was undeserving.
Mind blown. I really struggle with trying to uncover all of the limiting and negative beliefs living in me from being abused as a child and bullied at school and all the resulting disasters that happened in my life because I didn’t have the mental capacity or health to make the right decisions. My coping method has been to disassociate from my childhood so it is so difficult to remember what may have caused things still hampering me today.
My healing has taken my whole life and to come across something that can help me uncover another thing to be released is so valuable to me.
I share this with you in the hopes it may help those who also struggle.
If you want to know more about how tapping can help you with your weight or your money issues, I list two excellent books on the subject in my List of Life Changing Books which you can receive by joining my mailing list.