Turn Your Complaints Into Cash

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Ever since Ive made a conscious choice to be positive thinking I notice complaining a whole lot more.  Ive put in the work to recognise negative thinking and because I no longer take anti-depressant drugs (yay me!) I have to work extra hard at catching those little blighters that try and slip in through the back door.

However, Im finding that I seem to be surrounded by complainers.  Granted, I do live in a country where complaining is jokingly called the other national sport, but when you’re trying to create a mental environment of zen positivity while everyone around you is moaning about everything under the sun, it gets frustrating.

Some people just love to moan and I wonder what they would do with themselves if they suddenly weren’t able to gripe about anything.  I certainly wish I had the power to bonk some people on the head to rid them of this annoying habit, for their sake and mine.

So I devised a plan.  Did you ever have a swear box in your home or office?  Well, if you didn’t, it works like this.  Everytime you swear, you have to pay a fine.  It’s supposed to stop you from swearing and if done right, eventually will.

My plan is to transform complaining into something positive and functional. You can do this at home or at your office.  Just get a jar or money pig and each time someone wants to complain, they must instead write the complaint out on a piece of paper and put it in the jar or box with a monetary fine.  At the end of each month, send the funds collected to a charity of your choice and burn the complaints.

Being so mindful of your complaints will help put things in perspective and paying for your complaints will help those who have a right to complain.

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Currently Loving:

* phone conversations with my boy
* runway fashion
* vanilla lattes that make me CLEAN ALL THE THINGS
* letting my bangs grow out
* not blow drying my hair to get that wavy hippy look
* 30 day shred and it causing my arms to get stronger
* diet of fruit and veg juices, soups and salads
* my new car!
* longboard skating
* dreaming – I SWEAR I live a more interesting life in my dreams, sometimes I hate waking up!
* our massive cat coming to cuddle under the covers in the mornings
* researching local organic/low impact farms to volunteer on
* waking up to text msgs from my boy
* wearing minimal make up
* books, always


* people watching from the upper window of my favourite cafe
* fixing my bike by myself and fitting its mudguards today
* defeating our fruit fly infestation! WIN!
* my rad purple helmet
* the small view of the ocean from my bedroom making me feel in touch with nature
* x factor!
* caramalised onion hummus – oh my lord!
* tumblr tumblr tumblr – keeps me sane, inspires me, soothes me, enlightens me
* my lime green RVCA trousers I got on sale for £10 marked down from £50!
* actually being able to skate with my boyfriend and his friend without making an idiot of myself and bombing my first little hill with them, then high fiving my boy while doing so!
* my mom, fuck damn, my mom! bails me out whenever I need her, supports me no matter what!

What are YOU currently loving?  Spill it in the comments yo!

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Things I Love Thursday! Sunshine & Colourful Friends!

 

These two!

  • My new blender, now I can make mean green smoothies!
  • Bodyrock.tv workouts kicking mah butt!
  • Sunshine!
  • Spending four hours laying on the sand dunes at the beach with my girlfriends!
  • Gala Darling linking to my How To Be Skinny post!
  • Fabulous feedback from peeps who enjoy what I write!
  • My nails actually growing for a change!
  • Watching Tribe with the amazing Bruce Parry who visits remote tribes and lives with them!
  • Wearing flip flops again!
  • Wearing my denim mini every single day!
  • Wearing sunglasses!
  • Being in a rad rock burlesque group!
  • My awesome freakin friends!
  • My wicked awesome mom!
  • Tumblr’n

And These Two!

What have you been loving this week? Let us know in the comments! :D

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Things Making Me Happy Today

  • Sleeping in
  • Bright yellow daffodils in my room like a personal ray of sunshine
  • Smelling like La Perla J’aime perfume
  • Wearing a cute floral bikini (even tho I have my big fluffy dressing gown over it cos its cold!)
  • Well done minimal make up covering up my scars and spots :D
  • Listening to Madonna’s greatest hits (strike a pose!)
  • No bad news/emails to wake up to
  • Teasing all the boys
  • Making an impact
  • Yummy brunch salad made from left over last night’s rice and red lentil burger ingredients.
  • Caramalized onion hummus
  • Madonna’s amazing breasts (I read her SEX book today)
  • This really colourful shawl I bought in New York
  • Knowing that one day, one day, I will fly First Class
  • Researching Paris for my trip end of March
  • Designing my first business cards
  • Knowing that the new The-Dame.com is going to do well!
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